Well, once again I screwed up and now I want to get my ex girlfriend back. You’d think that at my age I wouldn’t get pissed off so fast or say dumb things that drive my girlfriend away but as old as I am I still do and say stupid things that hurt her or make her angry at me.
I’m pretty sure that all you guys know what I mean as being guys we’ve all said or did stupid things that cost us the love of our girlfriends or wives. When we get over being angry the first thing we think about is how to get my ex girlfriend back. Been there, done that and still stupid enough to keep doing it. Sheesh.
There are some things I can tell you that will help get my ex back and should work just as well on your ex girls as they’ve worked on the girlfriends I’ve lost in the past.
One of the things I’m not going to do is call her and beg her to take me back. Nor am I going to drive by her house or go to the places she always goes just so I can get a glimpse of her. Being a stalker or begging her to come back won’t work and those are things you don’t want to do. I’m also not going to send her flowers, gifts or chocolates.
While you may not believe it will work I am going to go about my normal life and have fun. If some of that fun is with another chick it sure won’t bother me. Matter of fact it will make me feel better and it will drive my old girlfriend crazy. Now I’m going to go to places with this new girl where we will be seen by me ex girls friends and they will report back to her that I’m out and having a great time without her.
In the past that little technique has worlded well to get girlfriends back if I wanted them back. Usually they will call me within a few days to a week. By then they’ve calmed down and are a lot more willing to talk. However I’m going to be very non commital and mostly be busy when she calls. I’ll be polite but I won’t talk long on the phone. I’ll use some excuse about being busy or going somewhere with the guys. I want her to know that her leaving me hasn’t bothered me even if it’s driving me crazy or making me depressed. Don’t let her see the pathetic weakness that you really feel or you will have blown your change to get your ex back quickly.
It’s good to be a bit aloof and let her come after you, not you going after her. If you chase her she’ll run away that much harder and then you’ll never be able to get your ex back. I don’t think that’s what you want. No matter how upset you are or how much you think you’re going to die with out her, you won’t and the hurt will heal.
While this technique has worked for me to get my ex girlfriend back there is no guarantee it will work for you.
