Is it possible to get your ex girlfriend back? Sure it is but it’s up to you to get her back and make her want you to come back. How easy it is to get her back after a breakup depends on what happened.
If you want to get your ex girl back you are going to have to throw out everything you think you know and do some work on yourself if you really want your ex girl back. It’s not easy to get her back but you can do it.
Obviously, if you’re like most guys you tried seeing her, pleading with her, making her promises to change, sent her flowers or candy and in general made yourself a pain in her ass. I hate to tell you this but none of that is going to work.
You see I’ve tried all those things to get my girlfriend back, more than once with more than on girlfriend. It’s kinda like what Tiger Woods wife told him. The words are nice but I have to see the changes first, then you can come back.
One way or another you are going to have to make some changes, in yourself, about what bothers her so much she broke up with you. After the breakup don’t call her, don’t write her, don’t text her, don’t email her, do nothing for at least a week. If you see her be polite but distant and act as if you are having a good time. Don’t let her see the pathetic weakness that you really feel or you will have blown your change to get your ex back quickly.
Yes, I know you’re upset and want to get your girl back but talking to your girl is absolutely the worst thing to do if you really want her back. Stifle all the impulses you have to talk to her and let the situation cool off. You must be in control of you. If you are in control you have a lot better chance to get her back than if you aren’t in control of yourself.
It’s good to be a bit aloof and let her come after you, not you going after her. If you chase her she’ll run away that much harder and then you’ll never be able to get your ex back. I don’t think that’s what you want. No matter how upset you are or how much you think you’re going to die with out her, you won’t and the hurt will heal.
If she calls you, just answer her questions, be polite but firm and then make an excuse that you are late for an appointment and hang up. That accomplishes a couple of things. First the aloof attitude makes her think you aren’t hurting as bad as you are. Second it lets her know shes not the most important thing in your life even if she really is.
Now if you’ve tried all of these things and still haven’t gotten good results or gotten your girlfriend back then you need more help than I can give you.
